Understand every word at the dim sum table, from asking for a table to the tea-tapping thank you, with simple Cantonese phrases for heritage learners.
For many heritage learners, the happiest Cantonese of childhood happens around a round table crowded with steaming bamboo baskets. You probably understood everything that was going on, yet when the trolley rolled up, an uncle or auntie did the talking. This guide gives you the words to join in, one table at a time.
飲茶 ( yám chàh , jam2 caa4) literally means "drink tea", but in practice it means a long, social meal of tea and small dishes, usually with family. The setting is ideal for learners: the vocabulary repeats every visit, the stakes are low, and everyone is busy eating, so a small mistake rarely matters. Many families call the restaurant a 茶樓 ( chàh làuh , caa4 lau4), and the small dishes are known as 點心 ( dím sām , dim2 sam1).
At the door, a host will usually ask how many of you there are. Listen for this question:
幾多位 ( géi dō wái , gei2 do1 wai2) means "how many people?"
Answer with a number plus 位 , for example 兩位 ( léuhng wái , loeng5 wai2), meaning "two people".
Once you are seated, use 唔該 ( m̀h gōi , m4 goi1) to get a server's attention or to thank them for any service. It is the most useful phrase in a restaurant, and you will use it many times in one meal.
Tea arrives first. Choose it by name, and you will sound instantly more confident. Common choices include 普洱 ( póu léi , pou2 lei2) and 菊花茶 ( gūk fā chàh , guk1 faa1 caa4). If you like your tea hot, 熱茶 ( yiht chàh , jit6 caa4) is the plain way to say it.
Pouring tea is a way of showing care. The verb is 斟茶 ( jām chàh , zam1 caa4). Pour for the elders first, then others, and fill your own cup last. When someone pours for you, it is common to tap two fingers on the table as a silent thank you, known as 叩指禮 ( kau jí láih , kau3 zi2 lai5). If you are the youngest at the table, this tiny gesture earns real approval.
Dishes come in baskets or on small plates, so the counting words matter. A basket is 籠 ( lùhng , lung4), and a plate is 碟 ( díp , dip2). Put them together with a number:
一籠 ( yāt lùhng , jat1 lung4): one basket
一碟 ( yāt díp , jat1 dip2): one plate
Now add the dish. Four old favourites are 蝦餃 ( hā gáau , haa1 gaau2), 燒賣 ( sīu máaih , siu1 maai2), 叉燒包 ( chā sīu bāau , caa1 siu1 baau1) and 鳳爪 ( fuhng jáau , fung6 zaau2). To order more of something you loved, say 再嚟一籠 ( joi làih yāt lùhng , zoi3 lai4 jat1 lung4), meaning "bring one more basket". Put 唔該 on the end and you have a polite, complete order.
Food compliments are the easiest conversation starters, and they please whoever chose the dishes. Try these:
好食 ( hóu sihk , hou2 sik6): tasty, good to eat
好飽 ( hóu báau , hou2 baau2): I'm really full
夠喇 ( gau la , gau3 laa3): that's enough
Family members love to urge you to keep eating. When an auntie tops up your plate, 多謝 ( dō jeh , do1 ze6) is a warm reply, and 唔該晒 ( m̀h gōi saai , m4 goi1 saai3) is a slightly fuller "thank you so much". If you are talking to the oldest generation, the respectful term for them is 老人家 ( lóuh yàhn gā , lou5 jan4 gaa1). A classic old-fashioned phrase for a light morning meal of tea and two small dishes is 一盅兩件 ( yāt jūng léuhng gín , jat1 zung1 loeng5 gin2). Slip it into conversation and you may well get a delighted look from a grandparent.
You can also encourage others gently with 慢慢食 ( maahn máan sihk , maan6 maan2 sik6), which means "take your time eating".
At the end of the meal, you will hear the whole table calling for the bill. The word is 埋單 ( màaih dāan , maai4 daan1). Catch a server's eye and say 唔該，埋單 . Arguing over who pays is practically a family sport. If you want to treat everyone, say 我請客 ( ngóh chéng haak , ngo5 cing2 haak3), meaning "my treat". Expect a polite protest and perhaps 唔使客氣 ( m̀h sái haak hei , m4 sai2 haak3 hei3), "no need to be polite". Giving gifts and money at festivals is another side of the same generosity, which you can read about in our guide to red packets .
Do not try to learn every phrase at once. Pick three: 唔該 , 再嚟一籠 and 好食 . Say them aloud at the table, even if a relative answers in English. Next time, add one more. Within a few meals, the words you only ever understood will start to feel like your own.
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